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Tuesday, March 19, 2024

Lily

 I took off work yesterday because I needed to take Lily to the vet to get her boobly cyst taken care of, that is not what happened.  There were severe underlying conditions that I was not aware of, the most major being that she was severely anemic.  Her white count was extremely high, her red blood cells were extremely low, and her platelet count was practically zero, meaning her blood had lost the ability to clot.  She had a lot of fluid in her abdominal cavity, and there was blood in that fluid, so she was experiencing internal bleeding.  Before he would even consider looking at the boobly cyst, my vet said she needed to be stabilized, her anemia brought under control, and source of the internal bleeding found and corrected.  Lily was a very sick dog and the possibility for her recovery was very poor, so I made the difficult decision, which was easier than I was expecting it to be.  And, as I gave her a final hug, and she nuzzled her nose up into my neck, I knew that she, too, was ready.

Those of you who read my books no doubt already suspect that Lily and Seig were the source for the Von Trapp Family Boxers, but Lily got special attention.  I used her AKC name, Lillian D'Aubert for the mysterious contact who provided the team with much needed information.

I will take a few days off, but not many.  Doing things, writing things, will keep me from sitting here moping around in my grief.

Believe me when I tell you it was such a joy to spoil her, she is going to be terribly missed.

Lillian D'Aubert
August 19, 2013 - March 18, 2024



15 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry, Dave. It's so hard to let them go but watching them suffer is even harder. Our pet families come then go but leave beloved memories and make room in our hearts to love other members that may come. Hugs.

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  2. Rest in peace Lily. A gorgeous and noble lady.

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  3. I'm so sorry to read this. Losing a beloved dog is one of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with. You gave her a good life and I hope that gives you comfort. Take care.

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  4. So sorry. A decision I have had to make many times over the years and it never gets easier.

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  5. Oh God Dave I'm so sorry to hear the news it never gets easier and it always breaks my heart when somebody has to have a pet put down. Now I got to search for a tissue. Do you foresee any other dogs in your future?

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  6. Oh Dave, I am so sorry for your loss.
    It's never easy but it is the right thing for our pets. Just remember that she was always loved and that she loved you right back.
    RIP Lily

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  7. Dearest Dave, so very sorry for your loss.

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  8. Oh Dave, I'm so sorry. I know you knew she wasn't well but for her to have been this sick must have come as a terrible shock. Again, I'm so sorry!

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  9. HuntleyBiGuy: So sorry for the sudden loss of your beautiful, beloved girl. It’s amazing what they are able to endure without us knowing what really may be bothering them. She’ll always be with you in your writing room.

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  10. So sorry to hear about Lily. It's one of the toughest decisions to make and it never gets any easier. Know that you did what was best for her.

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  11. So sorry to hear about Lily. It's one of the toughest decisions to make and never gets any easier. Just know that you did what was best for her.

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  12. It is so hard learning to live with the echoing space they leave behind. I am so sorry.

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  13. I'm sure she lived the best life possible. You're suffering, but the joy you gave her will console & confort you.

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