Most people really don't want to admit that marriage, as an institution, is pretty much a failure in its current state. When I worked for Interstate Hotels there was a catering secretary who sat just around the corner from my office who'd been married and divorced 5 times. You read that right. Five times she said "I do," and then five times changed her mind and broke her vows. There was a time when religion kept divorce in check. You got married and you stayed married. If you got a divorce you were excommunicated from the church, or you were snubbed by the community. That did not make marriage a good institution, but it did help it to endure. Today divorces are common place. The only time they make news is when they're between same sex couples. The Crazy Christians feel they need to throw as many stones as possible.
|The Happy Couple|
My Mom tells be her dress was expensive and the ceremony is going to be on the elaborate side. What a waste of money. The bride who buys a dress that costs as much or more then an inexpensive refrigerator is dumb as a brick. Of course most brides have already convinced themselves this is going to be the most important day in their life - until they marry for the second time. You see, that's another big problem with marriage which so many people choose to ignore. Divorce rates are high. Very high. In some states 65% of all marriages end up in divorce, which means only 35% don't get divorced. It doesn't mean they are happy marriages, just that both partners end up going their separate ways. Think about that percentage. What would you do if, after successfully completing all of the training, your instructor were tell you, just before you stepped out of the plane, "hey, you've got a 35% chance of surviving this jump?" Of course in one or two states almost 45% of all marriages survive. Would you want to bet on a horse with those odds?